160 Good Night Messages for Her To Make Her Feel Special

How do I say goodnight to make her smile?
on June 10, 2024
Read time: 10 mins

Imagine ending every day with a gesture that says, 'You're on my mind, always.' That's the beauty of a good night message for her.

But how can such a brief interaction carry so much weight? Even though good night love messages might seem cheesy or cliche, they’re actually an easy way to bring the practice of love into your everyday life — reassuring and reaffirming your affection every night. 

With so much riding on that perfect goodnight text, we’re here to help!

Can a good night message improve my relationship with her?

Sending a goodnight message might seem like a small gesture but it can actually have a big impact on your relationship. 

If you get into the habit of a daily good morning text and a good night message, this routine can become a big part of your relationship — as it's such a simple way to show your partner you’re always thinking about them. 

These cute good-night messages are particularly important if your girlfriend’s love language is words of affirmation, as these texts can provide the kind of reassurance and affection she needs. Or, if you want to really appeal to this love language, love paragraphs could also be a welcome addition to your texting routine. 

Even if you know you’re going to have a busy day or a late night, this isn’t something that you should let slip out of your routine (no matter how long you’ve been together!) 

How often should I send goodnight texts to a crush?

When you’re in a relationship, sending a goodnight text every night becomes a non-negotiable — especially when you’re not living together!

However, when you’re just crushing on someone, the rules are a little less clear,  as you don’t want to come on too strong. 

We’d suggest texting goodnight if the moment strikes naturally during your text conversation, rather than popping up out of the blue. Or, if you’ve seen them that day, a little goodnight text will go a long way…

What is the best good night text for her?

When a romantic good night text can become part of your routine, the pressure is on you to come up with something cute and creative when nighttime comes around. 

If you're looking for the best good night messages for your girlfriend, we’ve gathered all the inspiration you need to get it right night after night. 

Romantic good night message for her 

  1. I love you more each day than the previous day, sweet dreams love. 

  2. Every day I spend with you is the new best day of my life, sleep well my love. 

  3. Let me love to surround you as you sleep tonight — sweet dreams my angel. 

  4. Hope you will have the sweetest dreams tonight! 

  5. Please meet me in my dreams tonight, I couldn’t go without you for that long!

  6. My love for you covers the night sky as you sleep. Goodnight, my angel!

  7. Get ready to drift into dreamland, thinking about how much I love you. 

  8. Wishing you a restful sleep my angel. I’ll be dreaming of you. 

  9. You are my brightest star. Keep on shining & sleep well my darling!

  10. Making you feel special is one of my favorite things to do. I hope this good night message is a part of that! 

  11. You’re the biggest gift of my life. I hope you have a good night’s rest, my love. 

  12. Have a peaceful night my love! Sending you so much love and sweet dreams. 

  13. I couldn’t imagine going a day without wishing you a wonderful night sleep. 

  14. Good night my beautiful girl. You deserve an amazing sleep my gorgeous girl. 

  15. Dearest love, sending you good night wishes through this good night text. 

  16. My sweetheart, you’re my last thought when I go to bed and the first thing when I get up. Thought I should let you know… 

  17. You’re the love of my life and I can’t imagine life without you! Good night my darling. 

  18. As the moon glows in the night sky, my love for you illuminates my heart. Dream sweetly, my dearest.

  19. The stars twinkle and whisper your name; I'm sending you love and warmth in your dreams tonight.

  20. May the night breeze carry my love to you and guard your dreams. Goodnight, my precious one.

  21. Let the silence of the night be filled with the melody of our love as you drift into your dreams.

  22. Every night is a reminder of the endless love we share. Sleep tight, my cherished one.

  23. As you close your eyes, remember my heart beats only for you. Sweet dreams, my love.

  24. The thought of waking up to you is the only thing that makes saying goodnight bearable. Sleep well, my heart.

  25. May your dreams be a soft sanctuary for your heart and soul tonight. Goodnight, my treasure.

  26. Let each star in the sky be a wish for your happiness as you sleep tonight, my beloved.

  27. Tonight, may your sleep be peaceful and your dreams be filled with the love we share. Goodnight, my everything.

  28. The night may be dark, but my love for you shines brightly. Dream of me, my love.

  29. As you lay down to sleep, may the comfort of our love wrap around you like a blanket. Goodnight, my dearest.

  30. Every night before I sleep, I thank the stars for bringing you into my life. Sweet dreams, my angel.

Sweet good night message for her 

  1. Hoping you’re having a good night my love! Sweet dreams. 

  2. I hope you have beautiful dreams tonight. You deserve everything good coming for you!

  3. Is it pathetic that I miss you already? 

  4. As the night whispers softly, let it carry my love to you, ensuring your dreams are filled with the tenderness of my affection. Sleep peacefully, my dearest.

  5. Sleep tight my love & don’t let the bedbugs bite!

  6. Thank you for being the best friend that I could ever ask for. 

  7. I hope that you have a good night’s sleep tonight and remember that when you wake up, we can see each other again!

  8. Sending you so many kisses and hugs for a peaceful sleep. 

  9. You’re one in a million and I can’t believe how lucky I am to have you in my life. Good night!

  10. Can’t wait till tomorrow when we can be together again! Hope you have an amazing night's sleep. 

  11. Tomorrow’s a new day full of possibilities. My biggest hope is that I get to see you. 

  12. Sleep tight! See you soon in the morning light!

  13. I hope you enjoy my sweet messages every night (and don’t think I’m too cringy or cheesy!) 

  14. May the moonlight guide you through your dreams and back into my arms. Goodnight, my soulmate.

  15. I wish I could hold you through the night, but since I can't, I'll find you in my dreams. Goodnight, my love.

  16. As the night sky sparkles, I hope it reminds you of the sparkle you bring into my life. Sweet dreams, my treasure.

  17. Let the calm of the night envelop you in peace and tranquility. Dream of all the joy tomorrow will bring.

  18. May your dreams tonight be as kind and sweet as your heart. Goodnight, my dear.

  19. Counting the stars seems easier than being away from you. Wishing you a night filled with peaceful dreams.

  20. Your love is the lullaby that puts all my worries to rest. Sleep well, my beloved.

  21. Even in the silence of the night, my heart whispers your name. Dream sweetly, my love.

  22. As you rest your head, remember that you hold my heart. Wishing you a night as lovely as you are.

  23. Let each dream tonight be a glimpse of the happiness we share. Sleep well, my cherished one.

  24. Wishing you a cozy night wrapped in the warmth of our love. Goodnight and sweet dreams.

  25. May the night sky be a canvas for your dreams, painting a future full of happiness and love.

  26. Dreaming of the day when nights apart become a distant memory. Until then, goodnight, my love.

  27. Your smile is my guiding light, leading me through the darkest nights. Sleep tight, my joy.

  28. May your sleep be as comforting as the thought of us together. Goodnight, my heart's desire.

  29. Let the night be a reminder of all the beautiful moments we've shared and those yet to come. Sweet dreams.

  30. As the moon watches over the night, let my love watch over you as you sleep. Goodnight, my everything.

Good night quotes for her 

  1. “I miss you in waves and tonight I am drowning.” 

  2. “I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night.” — 

  3. “This is the end of the day, but soon there will be a new day.” 

  4. "Let the stars light up your dreams with my love as their guiding force. Goodnight, my dearest."

  5. “In dreams, we enter a world that’s entirely our own.”

  6. “The night is more alive and more richly colored than the day.”

  7. "As you close your eyes tonight, may you feel the warmth of my love keeping you safe until morning."

  8. “The moon is a friend for the lonesome to talk to.”

  9. “May your dreams be gentle and your rest be long. My love for you sings a never-ending song.” 

  10. “Goodnight stars, goodnight air, goodnight noises everywhere.” 

  11. "Dream sweetly, sleep peacefully, wake happily. My love will be with you every step of the way." 

  12. “The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night's sleep.”

  13. “Let the night take you on a journey to a place where your dreams can take flight.” 

  14. "As the moon watches over the night, may you feel my love embracing you tight."

  15. “Night is a world lit by itself.”

  16. “Sleep is the best meditation.” 

  17. “Each night, when I go to sleep, I die. And the next morning, when I wake up, I am reborn.” 

  18. “Goodnight. Let the stars guide you to where my love can find you.” 

  19. “For each night is a celestial sigh of relief, painted in the stars of hope and wonder.” 

  20. “Sleep, those little slices of death — how I loathe them.” 

Funny good night messages for her 

  1. I’d sing you a lullaby but I think that would keep you up rather than send you to sleep.

  2. If counting sheep doesn't work, try counting the number of times I thought about you today. Warning: Insomnia ahead.

  3. Goodnight! Don't let the phone fall on your face. Been there, done that.

  4. Remember, if you dream of monsters tonight, it's just me trying to protect you in my own way.

  5. Sleep well, and don't worry about the bedbugs. I've hired tiny ninjas to guard you.

  6. I'm not saying you snore, but the neighbors are asking if we bought a bear. Sleep tight!

  7. May your dreams be as sweet as the cake we shouldn't have eaten at midnight.

  8. If you find yourself in a dream shopping for unicorns, grab one for me too. Goodnight!

  9. I'd wish you a calm and serene night, but with our cat's nightly zoomies, I know better.

  10. Goodnight! Remember, in Dreamland, calories don't count. Enjoy the feast!

  11. If you dream of a giant marshmallow and it's missing in the morning, you know who to blame. Sweet dreams!

  12. Let’s hope your dreams tonight are as grand as my plans to sleep in tomorrow.

  13. Don’t fight with the blanket tonight; remember, I'm always ready for a midnight tug-of-war.

  14. Sleep tight and don't let the smartphone bugs bite. Or, at least, put it on silent.

  15. May your dreams be less weird than our actual conversations. Good luck with that.

  16. Here’s to hoping you manage to sleep despite the bed being lava. I believe in you!

  17. Warning: Dreaming of me may cause extreme happiness. Proceed with caution.

  18. Goodnight! May you have the strength to resist checking your phone every five minutes.

  19. If you wake up looking for me, I'm just in the fridge. I mean, my dreams. Definitely my dream.

  20. Sleep well and remember: In the morning, coffee will always be there for you. And me, maybe, after coffee. 

Good night messages for her if you’re in a long-distance relationship

  1. I miss you so much and I can’t wait to be back with you. 

  2. Counting down the days until teleportation is real? I miss you, my baby. 

  3. I hope you have the best night’s sleep and lovely dreams as we countdown to seeing each other again! 

  4. Cuddling with you would make this evening so much better.

  5. I can’t wait until the time in our lives when your face is the last thing that I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning. 

  6. There might be a thousand miles between us, but at least I get to see you in my dreams. 

  7. It might sound weird but I will be cuddling my pillow tonight and pretending it’s you. I miss you, my love, can’t wait to see you soon. 

  8. I’m sending you a virtual kiss and a restful night. Love you, my gorgeous girlfriend. 

  9. Every night apart is another countdown to the day we reunite. Sweet dreams, my love.

  10. Let the moon be our witness, shining upon us both, connecting our hearts even when we're miles apart. Good night.

  11. As you drift off to sleep, remember, the distance means so little when you mean so much to me. Sweet dreams.

  12. Imagine me holding you tight tonight. It's just a matter of time before it becomes our reality. Good night, my heart.

  13. Wishing I could teleport to your side for a goodnight kiss. Until then, this message will have to do. Sleep well, my love.

  14. Counting the stars until I can finally be with you. Each one represents a reason I adore you. Good night, my everything.

  15. Though miles lie between us, we're never far apart. Love bridges any distance and any silence. Good night, my dearest.

  16. Dream of me, as I will dream of you, and soon enough, our dreams will merge into reality. Good night, my love.

  17. Sending you a goodnight hug, a kiss, and a whisper of love to accompany you into dreamland. Miss you terribly.

  18. Even though you're far away, remember that you're always in my heart and dreams. Can't wait to hold you again. Good night.

  19. The night sky over me is the same one that's over you. Let's meet in our dreams under its vast beauty. Sleep well.

  20. Though we're apart, we're together in spirit and in dreams. Sleep tight, my distant love.

  21. Every night, I fall asleep with you in my heart and wake up with you on my mind. Missing you more with each passing day.

  22. Good night, my distant star. May your dreams bring you closer to me in spirit.

  23. I'll be counting the moments until I can finally say "good night" in person and not just through a message.

  24. Wishing I could end my day with you by my side. Instead, I'll settle for meeting you in my dreams. Good night, love.

  25. Let the distance between us be filled with love and the promise of a future together. Sweet dreams, my darling.

Flirty good night messages for her

  1. I can’t sleep without telling you how much I truly adore you. Sweet dreams my girl. 

  2. A little text to remind you that you’re the last thing on my mind before I drift off to sleep… and the first thing I think about every morning. 

  3. Dream about me tonight, because trust me, I will be dreaming about you. 

  4. Can I volunteer to be your pillow tonight? Adore you, sleep well. 

  5. Just a reminder — you’re the reason I go to bed with a smile. Sleep tight, my darling.

  6. I'm already counting down the minutes until I get to see you again. Two more sleeps. 

  7. You’re my favorite distraction, even in my dreams.

  8. Wish I could teleport to you just to say goodnight in person. Until then, this text will have to do. 

  9. Goodnight, gorgeous. I’ll be dreaming of all the ways I can make you smile tomorrow.

  10. Go to sleep knowing that you’re the best thing that has ever happened to me!

  11. Can’t wait for the day when I can kiss you goodnight every night. Until then, sweet dreams, beautiful.

  12. Just thinking about you before bed puts a smile on my face. Goodnight, my angel.

  13. You’re the reason my nights are so sweet.

  14. I’d give anything to be able to hold you right now. Just had to let you know... 

  15. The best part of my day is knowing I get to say goodnight to you. Sleep well, my love.

  16. Just wanted to remind you how much I love you before you fall asleep. Goodnight, beautiful.

  17. You’re the highlight of my day, every day. Goodnight angel. 

  18. Just a little goodnight message to remind you how much you mean to me. Sweet dreams.

  19. I can’t sleep without thinking about you first. Goodnight, my love.

  20. Sending you a virtual hug to keep you warm through the night. Sweet dreams!

Dirty good night messages for her 

  1. Can't wait to dream about all the ways I'll make you blush tomorrow. Goodnight, gorgeous.

  2. Sweet dreams, my love. I hope your night is as hot as you make my days.

  3. Thinking about how amazing you looked today is definitely going to keep me up tonight. Goodnight!

  4. As you drift off to sleep, imagine me whispering all my desires in your ear. Can’t wait to make your dreams come true… Goodnight angel. 

  5. Can't wait to explore every inch of you in my dreams tonight. Goodnight, my love.

  6. If only I could be there to hold you tight and keep you warm... and maybe a little more. Sweet dreams.

  7. Dreaming of the way you drive me wild with just one look. Goodnight, beautiful.

  8. Just thinking about our last kiss makes it hard to sleep.

  9. Imagining you next to me is the only thing that makes this distance bearable. Goodnight, sexy.

  10. I wish I could be there to show you just how much I want you.

  11. I don’t know about you, but I’ve lying here dreaming about all the things I want to do to you. Do you want to join me? 

  12. Thinking about your body next to mine is the best way to end my day. Goodnight, beautiful.

  13. Think it was a bad idea to start thinking about the other night before going to sleep, but at least we know what I’ll be dreaming about. 

  14. I can’t wait to show you what I’ve been dreaming about while we’ve been apart. 

  15. Any ideas as to what will feature in my dreams tonight? You. You. You. Minus clothes. 

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Is it okay to send a flirty goodnight text after a first date?

    Absolutely! After a first date (if it all went well), it can be a very sweet gesture to text them goodnight. While you don’t need to get too deep or sentimental, a cute text saying how much you enjoyed the date or that you’re looking forward to talking to them again tomorrow.
  • Does sending good morning and good night text messages every morning and night make her feel irritated?

    While some girls love to get a good morning and a good night message from their partner, it doesn’t mean that it’s everyone’s cup of tea. Some people could find this kind of text messaging excessive or accuse you of being clingy. It’s important to talk about what kind of communication makes you feel loved and secure, instead of worrying that your partner is getting irritated by your attempts at affection.
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