172 Dirty Truth or Dare Questions for a Sexy Game Night

Get to know each other better and discover a new side to your partner
by Paired
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Truth or dare is an exciting way to get to know a new partner or discover another side of your long-term significant other. This game also works just as well in the bedroom as it does for long-distance couples. It’s also an incredibly fun game to play during a bachelorette party.

Playing dirty truth-or-dare can spice up your sex life while keeping things playful because it can start a conversation and get you and your partner talking about sex — which research shows is key to a healthy and satisfying sex life

If you’re looking for some inspiration, we’ve compiled 172 naughty truth-or-dare ideas to keep you playing all night!

Sexy truth-or-dare ideas for couples

Is long-term sex life getting a little routine? Want to take things to the next level with your new squeeze? Try these dirty truth or dare questions with your partner whatever stage you’re at. If either of you refuses to answer, pick a dare from the list below!


  1. Have you ever accidentally sent a sext to the wrong person?

  2. Who would you like to sext right now?

  3. ...Why don’t you do it?

  4. Who in your contact list would you most want us to have a threesome with?

  5. What’s your favorite body part of mine?

  6. What’s your biggest roleplay fantasy?

  7. Who was the first person you had a crush on?

  8. Where’s the craziest place you want to hook up with me?

  9. Have you ever had a sex dream about me?

  10. What’s the weirdest thing anyone has ever said to you during sex?

  11. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever said to anyone during sex?

  12. Would you like to make a sex tape with me?

  13. Would you rather do a pole dance or a striptease?

  14. What part of my body would you like to lick right now?

  15. How many one-night stands have you had?

  16. Have you ever put a sexy selfie on social media?

  17. What’s your biggest turn-on when you think about me?

  18. If I gave you whipped cream right now, what would you do with it?

  19. What’s the dirtiest thing you’d like me to do to you?

  20. Do you think my best friend is hot?

  21. How soon after meeting someone have you slept with them for the first time?

  22. Have you ever broken a bed during sex?

  23. Would you rather only sext for the rest of your life, or only have phone sex?

  24. What common turn-off really turns you on?

  25. When did you first realize you were attracted to me?

  26. Have you ever faked an orgasm?

  27. Have you ever faked an orgasm... with me?

  28. Have you ever slept with a co-worker?

  29. Would you want a threesome with me and my best friend?

  30. Would you want a threesome with me and your best friend?

  31. What’s the craziest thing you’ve done in a sex dream?

  32. Have you ever been turned on at work?

  33. ...What happened?

  34. ...And what did you do about it?

  35. Have you ever been to a sex club?

  36. ...Would you like to?

  37. When was the last time I turned you on?

  38. Is there a sex toy you’d like to try on me?

  39. Have you ever injured yourself during sex?

  40. Have you ever had sex in a public place?

  41. When was the last time you touched yourself?

  42. ...What were you thinking about?

  43. Would you rather be dominant or submissive?

  44. Have you ever fallen asleep during sex?

  45. Have you ever been to a strip club?

  46. Has anyone ever walked in on you during sex?

  47. Would you rather only use your tongue or only use your fingers?

  48. What’s your favorite thing about my body?

  49. Would you rather only have morning sex for the rest of your life, or never have morning sex again?

  50. What was your first sexual fantasy?

  51. Have you ever tried swinging or partner swapping?

  52. ...Would you like to?

  53. Which celebrity would you like to see me make out with?

  54. Would you like to watch me make out with my best friend?

  55. Would you like to watch me make out with your best friend?

  56. How would you describe my sexual personality?

  57. What’s your favorite memory of us having sex?

  58. ...Is there anything that could have made it even better?

  59. What’s the sexiest gift I could give you?

  60. What’s the sexiest gift you’d like to give me?

  61. Have you ever kept a relationship secret?

  62. What’s your most romantic memory of me?

  63. Have you ever experimented with people of different genders?


  1. Put an ice cube in your underwear for one minute.

  2. Perform a sexy belly dance for your partner.

  3. Blindfold your partner and guide them around your body using only touch.

  4. Undress your partner using only your teeth.

  5. Clean the house naked.

  6. Go about your normal day but with no underwear on.

  7. Give your partner a massage, blindfolded.

  8. Remove your partner’s underwear using only your feet.

  9. Use each other as a human plate — whipped cream, chocolate sauce, whatever takes your fancy!

  10. Share a fantasy that your loved one’s never heard before.

  11. Handcuff your partner and treat them to their favorite turn-ons.

  12. Read an erotic bedtime story out loud.

  13. Set up a nude photo shoot and capture your favorite poses.

  14. Go skinny dipping in your local river or lake.

  15. Sext your partner during work.

  16. Touch yourselves while your partner watches.

  17. Give your partner a lap dance.

  18. Pick one part of your body and have your partner focus all their attention there.

  19. Choose a place you’ve never had sex and take your partner there.

  20. Draw a picture with whipped cream on your partner’s body.

  21. ...Then lick it off.

  22. Try a new pick-up line on your partner.

  23. Re-enact an X-rated version of your first kiss.

  24. Choose your fantasy orgy guests from your partner’s contact list.

  25. Play the rest of the game naked.

  26. Feed your partner using only your mouth.

  27. Give your significant other a full-body massage.

  28. Act out the first time you slept together.

  29. Have sex in a new part of the house for the first time.

  30. Kiss your partner passionately, like the climax of a movie.

  31. Perform a sexy pole dance with a broom or a mop.

  32. Use body paint to turn each other into a work of art.

  33. Twerk to the sexiest song you can think of.

  34. Confess your kinky guilty pleasure and try it together.

  35. Let your partner dress you up, then direct you in a striptease.

  36. Challenge your loved one to a sexy pillow fight.

  37. Spell out what you want to do to your partner using only emojis.

  38. Pretend you work at a phone sex line and have your partner call in.

  39. Blindfold yourself and guess which part of your partner’s body you’re touching.

  40. Play with melted wax (but be careful!)

  41. Hide chocolate or candy in your clothes and have your significant other find it.

  42. Send a sexy selfie when they least expect it.

  43. Balance an ice cube on your belly button for as long as you can bear it.

  44. Show your partner the last X-rated clip you watched.

  45. ...And describe why it turned you on.

  46. Put on your significant other’s underwear and strut your stuff on the catwalk.

  47. Shave your partner’s body hair.

  48. Pretend to give oral sex to the nearest object you see.

  49. Try tantric sex.

Naughty truth-or-dare ideas for friends

Want to go a little wild over drinks or break the ice at a bachelorette? Try these steamy truth-or-dares with friends for a party game with a twist.


  1. Picture your partner or crush — what’s your favorite body part?

  2. How old were you when you had sex for the first time?

  3. Who was your first kiss?

  4. What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s happened to you during sex?

  5. What’s the dirtiest thing anyone’s ever asked you to do?

  6.  …And did you do it?

  7. Would you have a threesome with any of this group?

  8.  …Who would it be with?

  9. What’s your steamiest sexual fantasy?

  10. How often do you masturbate?

  11. What’s your biggest turn-off?

  12.  Have you ever made a sex tape?

  13. What’s your favorite sex position?

  14. Do you ever sext?

  15.  …Can you read us one? Bonus points for a funny accent or impression.

  16. Who’s the sexiest person you’ve ever been with?

  17. Have you ever fantasized about a co-worker?

  18. Have you ever had an orgy?

  19. ...Would you like to have an orgy?

  20. What’s your best pick-up line?

  21. If you could only do one sex position for the rest of your life, which would you choose?

  22. Who would you rather kiss in this group?

  23. Have you ever had a sex dream about anyone in this group?

  24. Who was the first person you had a crush on?

  25. What’s your favorite sexual guilty pleasure?

  26. Who was your best sexual experience with? 

  27. …What made it so good? 

  28. Have you ever cheated on someone? 

  29. Have you ever had sex with other people in the room? 

  30. Where’s the most unusual place you’ve had sex? 

  31. What’s the dirtiest thing you want someone to do to you? 

  32. Have you ever had sex in your parents’ bed? 

  33. What’s your kinkiest turn-on? 

  34. Have you ever used sex toys with a partner?

  35. How many people have you slept with?


  1. Leave a steamy voicemail for an ex or another friend.

  2.  Lick peanut butter, whipped cream, or chocolate sauce off someone else’s finger.

  3. Fake an orgasm for one minute.

  4. Play spin the bottle and kiss the person the bottle chooses.

  5. Act out your favorite sex position with the person to your left.

  6. Pretend to give oral sex to a bottle for 30 seconds.

  7. If there’s a pool or a hot tub, go skinny-dipping.

  8. Hold hands with the person you know least in the group for one minute.

  9. Send a sexy selfie to someone in your contact list.

  10. Take a body shot. Balance the glass in your cleavage, on your torso — get creative!

  11. At the beach or a pool party? Draw a steamy image in sunscreen on a friend.

  12. Swap underwear with the person to your right.

  13. Reply to a social media post or story with a sexy emoji.

  14. Perform a pole dance on a nearby streetlight, or anything else that works!

  15. Transfer an ice cube from your mouth to someone else’s.

  16. Give a lap dance to a friend of your choice.

  17. Remove an item of clothing (or take a shot!)

  18. Snap a photo of a mystery part of your body and have the others guess.

  19. Wherever you are, twerk for 30 seconds.

  20. Hand over your dating apps to the group for two minutes.

  21. Perform a striptease for 30 seconds (if in private!)

  22. Roleplay a fantasy of your choice with another member of the group.

  23. Give a foot massage to the person on your right for one minute.

  24. Agree on a budget (we recommend around $20!) and let the person to your left order something steamy on your Amazon account.

  25. Send a sext to someone in your contact list.

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