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The Best 20 Relationship Questions for Couples

Spark intimate conversations with the most popular 20 questions for couples on Paired

Whether you’re looking to get to know a new partner better, improve communication in a relationship, or just strengthen your bond with your significant other, a proven way to do this is by asking your partner deep questions. 

The Paired app is your go-to destination for relationship questions. Each day, we send our community a new daily question scientifically proven to improve their relationship and build intimacy and connection. 

Research by the Open University showed that 85% of couples who used Paired reported better communication with their partner after using the app daily, and relationship quality increased by 36% with regular use of the app. 

Whether you want to know your partner better or simply improve your relationship, below are the 20 relationship questions the Paired community loved the most.

  1. Of your friends and family, who do you think has the best relationship and why?

  2. What does your partner need to feel loved?

  3. What's a memorable meal you've had together?

  4. How comfortable are you with silence?

  5. How do you and your partner handle conflict differently?

  6. How are your families similar?

  7. What's your least favorite household job?

  8. What does the right work-life balance look like for you?

  9. What causes you the most worry or frustration about money?

  10. How much foreplay do you like before sex?

  11. What's your partner's favorite food?

  12. How are your spending and savings habits similar, and different?

  13. What were some of your favorite childhood books?

  14. What healthy habits could you develop together?

  15. Aside from you, who do you think knows your partner the best?

  16. Which of your parents are you most like and why?

  17. Under what circumstances is it ok to get into debt?

  18. Can you name three of your partner’s closest friends?

  19. How often would you like us to have sex, as a minimum?

  20. Can you name three features of your partner's dream home?

Looking for more relationship questions to ask your partner? Download the Paired app today!

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